it's life

I have been married for a little over a month now.  Being married is great, I LOVE calling Nick my husband and I LOVE that we are a family.  But things didn't go exactly the way I had planned.  Before I was even engaged I got my wedding dress. When Nick and I did get engaged on February 13, six days later Nick was in motorcycle accident (I won't go into details) 2 surgeries and a week later he was released.  A week after Nick was out of the hospital we found out we were having a baby. We were so, SO excited, and I was a little shocked.  I mean just 2 weeks ago Nick was in a accident, not to mention he had a broken leg and now we're expecting?!  We were still so happy and couldn't wait to have our baby.  I was supposed to be planning and preparing for a wedding, not something I was very interested in doing because I was pregnant! What's more exciting than feeling your baby move, doctors appointments, and ultrasounds?  After months of procrastination, at 9 months pregnant I had only six weeks to prepare for our wedding, not to mention [I was NOT going to fit into my dress].  Our son was born just five weeks before our wedding, and things were finally starting to fall into place.  Thanks to our wonderful family, we had an amazing day.  So even though it didn't go the way I had envisioned or the way it was supposed to, (baby before being married) I wouldn't change it for the world.  It's OUR LIFE and we love it just the way it is.